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Hitting a baseball in mid-air is notoriously difficult. As multi-sport professional athlete Deion Sanders famously put it when asked about the hardest thing to do in sports, it’s “...hitting that baseball. Any sport you can fail 7 out of 10 times at and still be considered great - that’s a hard sport.”
My 8-year old, Micah, loves baseball. And while he seems to have a knack for it, he wasn’t always good at it. I distinctly remember “pitching” to him in the yard early on, which was more me trying to hit his bat with my throw than the other way around. In those days, it was common for him to miss one, two, three, ten pitches in a row. It was also common for him to collapse in a heap of tears, frustration spilling out of every pore. Like a lot of kids, Micah is the kind of kid who wants to be good at everything right away. And when he’s not, the disappointment hits hard. Like many other kids, his instinct is to shut down when he hits a wall. During those hitting droughts, something would usually shift. With a few deep breaths, some quiet encouragement, and a promise that he didn’t have to get it right today - he just had to try again - he would pick the bat back up. Another swing. Another miss. But eventually: crack. The ball would sail past me. The grin on his face in those moments said everything. He didn’t just get better at baseball. He was getting better at doing hard things. He didn’t succeed because it was easy, but because he kept going when it wasn’t. That, in a nutshell, is resilience. As a parent, it’s hard to watch our children struggle. And when you’re thinking about sending them to overnight camp for the first time, the “what ifs” pile up fast:
But here’s the thing: Camp is built for that kind of growth. It’s one of the rare places where kids can swing and miss in a safe, supportive space - and eventually, with a little encouragement, connect in ways that surprise even them.
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That Awkward Moment Before the MagicOne of my favorite parts of camp is the very first day.
It might sound strange… After all, it’s often the most awkward part of the week. Campers standing in small clumps or off to the side, staff trying to remember names, everyone sizing each other up with polite smiles and uneasy greetings. But I love that moment. Because I know what’s about to happen. Within a few short hours, the nervous energy melts away. Silly games break the ice, stories are shared, and laughter starts to loosen up even the stiffest of campers. Guards go down, camaraderie builds, and before long, the same kids who couldn’t make eye contact at check-in are racing each other to dinner, singing songs and cracking jokes like lifelong friends. It’s a transformation I never get tired of watching. That’s the power of camp. From the very beginning, we work to create an environment where kids feel safe - not just physically, but emotionally. Campers and staff alike are invited to show up as their full, authentic selves, without fear of being laughed at, left out, or judged. We lead with vulnerability, build trust through play, and lay a foundation where real connections can grow. There’s a phrase every camper at Camp Lookout hears on the first day of camp: “We’re in the build-them-up business, not the tear-them-down business.” It’s not just a motto. It’s a filter we apply to everything we do. Before a child can grow in confidence, try something new, or explore their faith, they need to feel like they belong. Without that, none of the other good stuff can happen. Belonging is the bedrock of every life-changing camp experience. |
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A ministry of Holston Conference Camping & Retreat Ministries
A ministry of Holston Conference Camping & Retreat Ministries